Why are RPGs so hard? Pt. III - Keeping a Group Together

Why does a gaming group fall apart and how do you keep yours together?

In this series I’m calling “Why are RPGs so hard?” I address some of the biggest challenges in running and playing tabletop RPGs. Because let’s face it, there are a lot of challenges. Those challenges are probably why video games and board games are much bigger industries. But I love RPGs, and since you’re here, I assume you do to. So let’s discuss!

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Introduction

Welcome to the third and final part of my series, "Why are RPGs so Hard?" As always with TTRPGs, it’s the human element, how a group forms, sustains itself, and sometimes dissolves, which poses questions that are the most complex and essential. Let’s explore the delicate balance of consistency, change, and the shared emotional experiences that can either fortify or fracture your RPG group.

I.             The Importance of Consistency

II.            Navigating Changes and Transitions

III.          Celebrating Milestones and Achievements

IV.          Addressing Burnout

V.           Conclusion

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I. The Importance of Consistency

One of the most understated elements that contribute to the success of a play group is consistency. While the allure of epic quests and intricate character development often takes the spotlight, the regularity with which a group meets can be the glue that holds the whole thing together. Let's delve into why this seemingly mundane aspect is so crucial.

1.    Benefits of a stable routine

2.    Irregular Sessions and Disengagement

Benefits of a Stable Routine

We’re creatures of habit. We find comfort in routines because they create a sense of predictability and security. This is no different in the realm of TTRPGs. When a group commits to a regular gaming schedule, be it weekly, bi-weekly, or even monthly, it creates a rhythm that players can integrate into their lives. This rhythm becomes a shared experience, a recurring moment of escapism and camaraderie that everyone looks forward to.